A number of our participants kindly agreed to share their experience. You can read their interviews below (where necessary, names have been changed for confidentiality).
How did you feel before the first Opening to Intimacy weekend that you went to?
I’ve been to six weekends now and they have been a big part of my learning around what ‘in-to-me-see’ really is. Before the first one, I did feel a bit uncertain, there was a part of me that still mixed up sexuality and intimacy, but Tim explained that the most important part was finding out how to be intimate with yourself. But when I actually arrived, I felt comfortable and trusting.
What do you get out of these weekends?
I enjoy connecting with people on a deeper, more intimate level. I also enjoy supporting others going through their emotional processes. I lead groups in prison around alcohol and drug abuse, I’ve done a lot of therapy but doing this kind of processing in a dance environment is different for me. Moving your body means you get into your feelings quicker, and really aids processing. > MORE
How many of these weekends have you been to?
I’ve been to four now, and also to the summer camps which Tim and Jayne run so I have experienced enough of this work to feel comfortable about the depth of sharing and the circle with others in it bearing witness.
What was your initial reason for coming on one of these weekends?
I suppose I felt I lacked a depth of connection in my everyday life and was seeking that. I’m a teacher and a single mother and I live in the countryside in Suffolk so I don’t have that much opportunity to find this sort of connection. > MORE